Fireproof Your Marriage 2 Part 2

Hello everyone,
How can we “Fireproof Our Marriage”? We must always MAINTAIN PROPER RELATIONSHIPS.
Most affairs occur between close personal friends, co workers or family members. Since we have to deal with people every day of our lives how do you maintain a proper relationship in casual relationships?

1. Don't listen to a member of the opposite sex tell you his or her marriage problems. Steer them to a same sex counselor.
2. Women do not go fishing for compliments. Don't go looking for them. You may have married a man that did not notice that two weeks ago you died your hair blue and purple and has yet to comment on it. Men, watch what you say to women. If you're not sure what to say, it's better to say nothing in terms of compliments than to give the wrong signals.
3. Be aware of a sense of electricity between you and a member of the opposite sex. You have two choices: You can either be stroked by it and think "Wow! That feels good. This person thinks I'm attractive." Or you can pull back saying "No, I love my husband/wife and I'm not going to risk what I have just because you make me feel good and make me feel wanted."
4. Avoid a prolonged stare. This is OK for singles, it's called flirting. But if you are married, flirting is over. It's a game that you can no longer participate in.
5. Avoid a lingering touch. It's a dead give away, if a person hugs you too long, or touches you in a way that feels uncomfortable, it is a dead giveaway that they are interested.

Ephesians’ 5:3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people.

It takes more than good intentions to remain pure. You need a plan.
How to keep pure:
All For Jesus
Phil